Expect greatness. The man in a wheelchair does not want your silent condolences, he wants you to look him in the eye and engage. The HIV positive man does not want your mournful laments of his condition, he wants a clear assessment of his abilities. To project deficiency on our fellow human brings him down. [...]

This is my answer to a question posted on the TRIBE - WeHo Gay Men's Discussion Group facebook page. "If condoms are only 70% effective at preventing the spread of HIV, and less that 17% of men who have sex with men are using condoms every time, where do we go from here?" Putting the Nail in the [...]